Sunday, January 4, 2009

Priorities

Right now I feel pulled in so many directions. I really have to sit down and think about my priorities and let some things go. I quit working so that I can spend more time with my kids. At first, we didn't have many outside activities, just school. Lately it seems we have too many activities. Hopefully, it was just the holidays.

I also need to get balanced. I have to remember to do some things for myself, to keep my sanity.

I think we found "our" church. If so, that will help tremendously.

I'm going to just go ahead and make a couple lists. I'll come back and edit as I think about these things.

Things I want to do for myself:
  • time for God, reflecting
  • reading
  • learn how to knit
  • make crosses
  • finish school (2 classes & my thesis left!)

Things I want to do with the kids:

  • school
  • learn to speak Spanish
  • one field trip per month
  • scrapbooking
  • making blankets
  • some kind of Bible study

Things I want to do with Rudy:

  • have down time after the kids go to bed - no distractions
  • one date night a month

Things I need to do around the house:

  • get it organized!
  • keep it running smoother
  • develop a system that works for us

Upcoming challenges:

  • The 40 day diet Rudy & I are starting on Tuesday

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Money, Money, Money

Do you know anyone that isn't worried about money? People who have alot are worried that they'll lose it. Most of us are trying to keep our heads above water, and too many are already homeless and hungry.

I just read this blog called Anywhere but Here. It's about a teen girl and her mom that are homeless. Through the world of blogs, word about her plight has gotten out. They have been receiving some assistance from Christians around the country! Her blog is really inspiring because she has such a good attitude and outlook - really hard in her situation!


I'm going to start tracking all of our money for 2009. Soon I'm going to post a snapshot of where we are. We've got to do better this year!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

New Friends!


I am so thankful for my new group of friends! Since we have started homeschooling, we haven't met many others like us. Recently, though we were invited to join a group called Family Values and we have met many great moms & kids! We've only met a few of the members, but they are already such a blessing!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Christmas Blessings

My family has been richly blessed this Christmas season.

Recently, we've had several set backs that have really hurt. Christmas was looking very bleak. I was second guessing my decision to homeschool instead of working. Now, my faith is completely restored! God is so good! Keep reading and you'll understand:

Our blessings:

1. A generous person that we don't even know offered to pay our water bill. We had a shut-off notice. Not only did she pay the notice, she also paid the current month's bill. We received a Christmas card from her the other day and she included a $100 check! Now I can pay the gas bill and put the remainder toward the electric bill!

2. A family has offered to purchase the items that we need to make tamales, which is a Christmas tradition of ours that we were going to have to forego this year. The family is going to meet me this Saturday afternoon at the grocery store. Making tamales means so much to the kids and they look forward to it every year. Thank you to Shari & Rudy who met us at Food Lion and gave us a $100 gift certificate!

3. On the of the message boards I am involved in, each month we have a "wishes" thread. On the December wishes thread I asked that if anyone had some small items they could send so the kids could open some gifts, we would appreciate it (Salvation Army & Christian Services were full). Two amazing members responded! One donated some credits to me and encouraged me to use them in the Book Bazaar. I had fun! I'm not positive of the final count, but I think I spent 8 credits and am getting about 30 books! The Lord promised to provide for us if we follow Him. Well, we ARE and He DID!!!!!! See #6 for other PBS blessing.

4. I taught our good friends & neighbors (one family) how to make the the crosses that I sell, so they could make some for gifts for their families. They said they were not going to make them for sale, they only wanted to make some as gifts. Well, they made some and wore them to church. A lady wanted to buy 10 from them @ $10 each! They tried to give her my info, but because she knew them, she wanted the items to come from them, as it would mean more to her. They asked if I minded before they accepted the job and offered to give me half of the money. I gave my blessing and turned down the money. This past Sunday I was trying to figure out how we will get through the week, food and gas-wise. I was about to call my friend and ask if we could borrow $20 until this Friday, when she came over and insisted that we take the $50. She said that God was telling her that the money was not hers and that she should give it to me! This before I even told her of our need! We had been praying and God answered! Of course, I had given my blessing for her to sell the items and I do not in anyway feel that she "owed" me that money, but how awesome is it that we were so blessed right when we needed it!!!!

5. We have had the honor of making crosses as a family and we have given out them to four families in need and to one soldier so far this Christmas season. We've also gone into an organization and handed one out to each employee just to brighten their day. So far, we have given away 27 and our goal was 30. Since I have 3 kids, they each are going to pick 1 person to give one to tomorrow!!

6. Today we received a Christmas card in the mail from another PBS member with a $35 gift certificate for Target! What a blessing!

7. Yesterday we met a lady from Monroe and she gave us some clothing that is really nice that fits Ashley. I mean really nice, like even if we had the money, I wouldn't buy it for her!! There was also a boy's coat that we didn't need so we gave it to our neighbor's son. He loved it! It was a new coat with tags. Later, his mom said that if she knew he was going to love it so much, she would have wrapped it up!

8. We received a Christmas dinner complete with a huge ham from the Family Resource Center sponsored by the boy scouts.

9. From the Family Resource Center, I was also able to get some groceries and some clothing for the kids, including a coat for Ashley which she really needed. I also got a new coat and its really nice!

10. I'll keep adding them...tonight (Saturday, Dec 20) Rudy won a raffle at his work Christmas party and we got a $50 gift certificate for Target!!

11. We were able to bless two families with tamales! One that moved here from San Diego three years ago and haven't had tamales since, and one family from Texas that has been looking for homemade tamales!

12. Thank you to Dawn who gave us $50 and some gifts for the kids!

I've spent so much time in tears over the last two weeks just amazed at the kindness of strangers and friends alike. In fact, my husband has quit assuming that something bad has happened when he sees me crying!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Cross Necklaces & Key Chains


I have recently decided to start making and selling cross necklaces and key chains again. See the samples of my work to the left.


I charge $10 per cross. Please add $3 shipping for each address (not each cross). If you order at least 3 crosses, I will cover the shipping.


I have many different colors, just let me know your favorites. The most popular colors are red, black, baby blue, hot pink, and amethyst. I can also do custom crosses (same price) using two to three colors. Many people like these in their favorite team's colors and my red, white, and blue flag cross is also very popular.


Each cross comes with a tag that describes the symbolism of the materials used to make the cross.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Update!

I'm officially not full time anymore! Even though I gave my notice for July 31, I agreed to stay on part time to complete a few projects and train the new person.

It is my goal to blog here at least 3 times per week, and I hope to hear from others in my situation.

We are starting school at home on August 19 and we are all eXciTeD!!

I am also surprisingly calm...I am trusting in the Lord to provide my family's needs.

My oldest baby (she's 11) has been vacationing in Michigan with my family since the beginning of July. She is coming back this weekend and I can't wait, I've missed her so much!

My mom is bringing her back, and my mom is my last major "hurdle" to our new lifestyle. I haven't "officially" told my mom about the homeschooling, but my daughter has mentioned it. My mom keeps asking me and I put her off. My mom is so judgmental and thinks that I just need to work. I'm trying to prepare myself, because she's been known to make hurtful comments.

Keep me in your prayers next week!

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Notice

Well, I have given notice! I gave about 6 weeks notice. My last day will be July 31st. However, I said that I would be available for maybe 10 hours a week to help out and continue training.

I'm very happy that my boss said that as a friend he understands and even supports why I am leaving.

So far, we haven't had any luck finding a replacement, though. Mission finance work is fairly specialized, so I was hoping to have someone start working soon.

It is such a relief that it is out in the open at work now. I am free to talk about home schooling my kids, and concerns about losing an income.